"You will getting marry earlier than me....."

Yesterday I hear a sentence that make me confuse and think serious on it "you will getting marry earlier than me....." this sentence was said from a friend. After listen to it, I feel that uncomfortable and this make my brain to start work again to think out why he said so. A lot of memory in my mind was recalled. I found that in the previous of our human life mostly is living under the situation that taking care of others people because we stated by the rule and the view of moral from society.

If we do never change our mind set, I think no matter the previous history for 10 years in your past or the future 10 years for your life that still the same situation. You are all the time living in the situation that always needed to take care of others. This not a easy task but is a kind of heavy responsible or burden for us. Some of the time even make yourself lost because you are putting your center of life on others not to yourself.

Suddenly, I found that who can be parents were great. They were sacrificed half of their life to take care of the children, to grow them up, to educate them. For me, that was a really burden task and responsible for me because in the previous 10 years i was the center of rely for others. So, I knew it that the responsible to let others rely is not easy. So, I decided that in the future of 10 years I don't wish that to be the rely for others and I won't be the burden rely to others also. I preferred to live happy and alone without any burden on my shoulder.