The Feeling Of Safe

There is not everyone can give that feeling
It was very imagination thing, it was a feel
there is not one can really tell that how it come
is just depend on the personal's feeling, suppose to say like this........
when something that important going to be loss,
there are a sense of security alarm is turn on......
You are strongly get feel yours personal things is not belong to your then you will get what means it....
OR
when you are in dangerous, the first person that you thinking is who?
this person is the person that you always believe in and even depend on...
because you know that they are going to help you no matter what you are facing...
even they might no strong enough but you are choose to believe their ability......

Sometime is not the strongest person can give the feel of safe to others, there is not such of theory there....may be is the feel of unsafe or dangerous who bring by this type of people....

The most important things is the confidence.....
confidence can let others get the feel of safe and get a feel that can be depended on to others.... they are choose to believe them because they can solve better than themselve....
For a person that always depend on others to protect themself, their confidence is very less and they are represented of spineless....
Too depend on others to get this feeling is a burnen for others.......there is no one that can let you depend forever. No matter is your family, parent, children, husband, wife, friend, or others. Fate is impossible to let you die at the same time same date same year with the one you depended on. Learn to give the feel of safe for yourself is a type of definitely and don't make yourself so loss direction, learn to be independent, don't let yourself be the burnen for the others is a type of proud also. Live in PROUD!