Trap

Even know there is a trap, are you dare to walk in? May be is too rasional!
In our life there is a lot of challenge, but sometime is because of rasional thinkning there is a lot of missing chance to try that all.
Human are scare to hurt, but without overcome there is not improvement, why scare but still want to try it?

Another ways to explain it is
Because scare to get hurt, so always make the decision that protect ourselve even that is selfish.
Because having the hurt before, so never naive and easy to believe to others again
Sometime saw many of friend surrounding get in, at the end all are getting the hurt and come out with tears.......
May be is scare to get the hurt, who dare to let yourself get hurt? Can the heart accept the double attacked?
Even how stupid or how silliy is the person after get hurt, they are learn to be clever and learn to protect themselve, because this world there is no one more cherish than our own. Even there is a person like this, but how sure are you that the person won't be leave you one day?

Because of that we learn a lot of think to protect ourselve, learn to use different face to face different type of people.
In front of different type of people, having different type of our own, different type of our character, different type of communication skill and techinc, there is many type of different......

For the people who hurt us before there is the same returned to them that using their way, learn their hypocrisy, face them with a cooless face and smile
For the mature friend, face them with a childish face, because they can solve the problem for us
For the family, face them with a mature face, parent at home is getting older, we must be take over to support the family
For the problem, face them with the rasional and yield face, because there is not one can help to solve it when you really face problem
For the different of people surrounding, will be having a lot of face....depend on who is the people is.....
In the end one thing for sure, there is uncounted of ourselve. Because the trap is always surrounding, if reall don't want to get hurt the only way is learn to protect ourselve, that is always to guard against them.