Tuesday, March 17, 2009

give WITHOUT ask the pay back?

experience in life is simple
give and never ask for the pay back
how many people can do this?
is that possible? it was silly....
one way given is hard to continue the relationship
just same like we use one leg to move forward
just same like we use one hand to climb mountain
that is hard for us to do that...
everything is going harder and harder

to build the trust in between also the same
depend on how much trust take out from us
we are not expect others pay back as much as we come out to them
may be what we take out is just consider a bit or nothing to them
for the one who complaining, are they taking out much more than us?
are they really take the same amount exchange to us?
to continue the friendship is not easy and we have to work together
to break it was so easy, either you betrayal on us or you lie on us
to maintain the relation is still need both way on it

one way work on the relation is not work
by the time you are put the trust on others
actually you are expecting the person give the same also
may be you said you didn't and disagree now
but one day later you will realize that you are ask pay
because you said them betrayal and lie on you...
betrayal....lie.....
REALIZE......give without pay back....FAIL!!!!

5 comments:

SeaN said...

Give and never ask for pay back is for the person you care much not just for everyone as you say.. If you think so, why don't you give your everything to a person without ask for pay back.. Life must give and take, should be balance.. Not everyone will appreciate your give, they may think you should do so always and ignore their part.. Maybe you are correct but i don't think so.. Hehe..

Anonymous said...

clear 0.o all now...
give and take...why must give others then go and take from others...
because that is like you said...
actually is just can said is exchanging....the trust..love...time...to continue the relation....try to come out from the aquariums and look at another where...you will found what i means...is not only apply in friendship, even love of couple, workplace, and parent's love to you....

Sharky said...

this post like refer me only..so i must comment here..those who r sincere will give without the intention of getting any reward back..some people deserve to get something coz they have mutual understanding that the person is worth it..those who always wan take only can't be called friends..just some1 v know only..

Anonymous said...

wei...i didn't means is on u...but others..got a lot happened all against yesterday...it was so clear and bring me out from the aquarium to see though what is happened now...ya..someone we know...or may be is just recognize the face and don't ever know who are them...they are no longer important to me...no relation...stranger only...

Little Match Gal.. said...

About giving, it is right to give without the intention of getting payback from others. But to some one that does not appretiate what you have given to them or they might think that the things that you have done for them is a minor one...But for those who ask for more when you've been given them a lot is the kind that you need to tolerate with and just think that the thing that you have done is for your own good... this way you will never feel the unappreciation by otheres to you.